Are we really the complicated sex? Do we not know what we want? Personally I know what I want, I can't find it but I know what it is. But men, do THEY know what they want? I don't think so.. Had a conversation with a friend last weekend and he told me he thinks about the exit strategy before thinking of how he would approach her. Why? The thing is he's confident enough, I don't think it's rejection he fears.. It's more of lacking the 'so what' factor in his life I guess. But 'so what' gets you places.. If things don't work out with a girl, SO WHAT! You meet someone else.. If you get rejected, SO WHAT! Her loss! If she has a nervous break down after you dump her, SO WHAT! No one's ever died of a broken heart, and she wouldn't either. Odds are, she'll move on, get over you, find someone else, and then she won't be able to remember what it was about you she liked in the first place.
Thing is, nowadays girls are being encouraged to make the first move, and as much as I respect and admire women with such confidence, personally, I wouldn't. I'm a romantic at heart, I want to be swept off my feet, and not the other way around. Ahh days of chivalry are dead people! DEAD AND BURRIED! Men, seriously, enough with mixed signals and playing hard to get, go after what you want, even if you get rejected, you've got nothing to lose, girls, if you can make the first move then go for it, if you're like me, then give him a sign, flirt a little, see where things go, if he doesn't make a move? Then I guess nothing much to say but SO WHAT! NEXT!!
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